Blogging Blunders: Do You Shoot the Messenger?

image for shoot the messenger postI have been watching a couple of blog comment squabbles this month with a little amusement and a lot of dismay. I always wonder whether the blog hosts realize how they look when they attack a messenger and deny what the readers can see.

Do You Struggle to Accept Criticism Graciously?

  • When someone points out a flaw on your blog, do you aim the issue back at them?
  • When an editor requests changes, do you bristle and respond defensively?

I will let you in on a little secret: The opposite of praise is not criticism. The opposite of praise is silence. Kids know this; that is why they act up to get attention.

Criticism as a Form of Praise

opposite of praise graphicCriticism is often a form of praise for a writer. It says you matter enough to the critic to merit a response. With all the competition for attention, the easiest option is for someone to spot a flaw and shut you out forever. When a reader or editor takes the time to communicate a way you might improve, that is a gift.

However, when you fend off a well-intentioned critique with a pitch fork, you look petty and insecure. You alienate someone who might have been a friend. Witnesses may feel uncomfortable about entering the conversation. And face it, no amount of bluster will make you right when others can see a critique is valid.

I Struggle With This Myself

I would be lying if I claimed I always respond graciously to criticism. I am a work in progress. However, I have learned to hold my tongue for as long as it takes to rationally consider:

  • Is the criticism valid?
  • Is the criticism valid but immaterial to my mission?
  • Is the critic someone whose opinion I value?

Then I try to find the words to say thank you for the feedback, because without feedback I fear my writing might grow stale and irrelevant.

Waking Up to My Readers

Last week, I woke up my quinoa blog with a slightly off-topic post. One of my long-time readers wrote to ask that I return to my mission of providing quinoa recipes and nutrition tips. I could have been hurt. I could have justified the post a hundred ways to Sunday.

Instead, I acknowledged that I had strayed about as far off topic as my subscribers would tolerate. Her message was a wake up call that yes, folks are listening, and yes, they would like me to return to the mission.

Don’t shoot the messengers who are trying to help you achieve the excellence to which you claim to aspire. Remember, the opposite of praise is silence.

Gun image courtesy of DieselDemon.

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FanBizzy: Making a Noise Online

image of trees against the skyYou may be familiar with the old philosophy conundrum, “If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?” While I have no interest in debating this issue, I think it sheds light on a very real problem we writers face when publishing online: If our content fails to find an audience, it might as well not exist. No matter how good the content or how earth shattering the consequences for humanity, none of that matters if no one sees the words.

Yes, there was a time, not long ago actually, when you could throw up content online, let it sit for a few months, and eventually Google or another search engine would find your page and send some traffic. Lather, rinse, repeat. However, competition has forced the search engines to weight their algorithms to value social cues more than in the past.

Social Promotion

The snowball remains a good metaphor for building an audience online. You create your content, you give it a push, and you hope it grows and accelerates. The more snow the ball picks up along the way, the greater the area of impact.

We know that people often look for cues that others are taking action before taking action themselves. They are more likely to read your post if it has a lot of likes. And then having read it, they are also more apt to like it if there are a lot of numbers already up on your social leader board.

Getting the Ball Rolling

The challenge lies in getting that snowball to start moving. When a small business launches a blog or a writer begins publishing online, the lack of interest by friends and family can frustrate efforts to get the ball rolling. You do not want to antagonize those who support you with endless requests to “+1″ and “like” your content, but those early clicks are so dear to getting something started online. (If only they understood. Those who bemoan the loss of local jobs should consider supporting local businesses with lots of likes and +1s. But that is another post.)

As a writer, you can increase the value of your content by giving it a push in the sort of snow most likely to cling and propel your content more vigorously downhill. Networks help you amplify your message early among people who spend their clicks freely. Not all this traffic is targeted, but those early social actions will have three effects:

  1. Early shares expose your work to more eyeballs.
  2. Early social clicks inspire others to click as well.
  3. Clicks and shares increase your page’s visibility in the search engines.

If you are managing clients’ social media accounts, then networks are invaluable for situations like when you launch a Facebook page and need twenty-five likes before claiming your link.

FanBizzy

There are many online networks that will connect you with those who are generous with their social shares, like Triberr and Empire Avenue. I recently came across a new one: FanBizzy.

FanBizzy lets you load up your social networks and web pages and then use the on-site currency to exchange social shares and profile follows. You can earn currency by following other users’ social media profiles or by clicking social buttons. You can set controls on which country or gender you wish to solicit for clicks. To my mind, the best feature is that you can delete a page or profile when you no longer wish to promote it.

I recommend staying ahead of the next Google update (Koala? Kookaburra?) by minimizing the number of links into your site from FanBizzy.

How Much Does It Cost?

You can sign up for a basic FanBizzy account using coupon code promo and you will get 1000 FanBizzy coins. You can pick up additional free coins each day on the site. If you would like to unlock better features, you can purchase a VIP membership using cash or your FanBizzy coins.

Drawbacks

FanBizzy works imperfectly with Facebook. In the area where you can like web pages, I cannot see the pages before liking them. When I look at Facebook pages to like, in Firefox anyway, it opens a small window that disappears, but is not gone at first, just hidden behind my primary browser window. If I do not find that window fast enough, it does close. Very awkward, but now that I know how the windows work, it is manageable.

I think this network has possibility. Is it spammy? Not when you can see the pages/profiles first. In my opinion, it is like walking into a room of known marketers and saying, “Hey, can I get a few likes on my page?” No one is expected to lie and like something they find unpleasant. Still, you will get more likes per hundred views in that room. You will get even more likes if everyone knows you as a socially generous person as well. And once you have launched your snowball through the perfect patch of powder, you can sever the link if you wish to let organic growth guide it downhill.

What Networks Do You Use?

Do you have any networks you use when launching new content? Let me know in the comments.

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Doesn’t Suck Doesn’t Cut It When Striving for Excellence

image of text - This post doesn't suck!!I keep seeing a buzz phrase in blog headlines and company tag lines, DOESN’T SUCK. I cannot imagine a louder clarion call for mediocrity.

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10 Things I Hate About Textbroker

image for things I hate about textbrokerThe other day, I published a post that covered the ten things I love about writing for money on Textbroker. That post only tells half the story, though, because I actually have a love/hate relationship with TB. In the interest of full disclosure, here are some of the cons of writing for Textbroker. Continue reading

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10 Things I Love About Textbroker

writing for money on textbrokerA lot of people ask me where they can go to start writing online. If I do not know anything about their writing abilities, I recommend Textbroker (TB). The pay starts low, but you can earn while you learn, and when you do, your pay rate will go up. Continue reading

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Empire Avenue: Do You Play the Social Media Game?

image of my Empire Avenue profile

A few weeks ago, I was inspired to join Empire Avenue after reading a post about it on Ari Herzog’s blog. Herzog piqued my curiosity about this influence-as-a-stock-market-game, and I figured I might as well check it out so I could at least tell you what it is all about. Continue reading

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Do You Share Your Reviews on Amazon?

This recent tweet from author Alex Carrick resonated with me because I have heard this from other authors as well. He emphasized the point that as useful and appreciated as reviews on your blog may be, your review on Amazon benefits the author even more. Continue reading

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Can Writers Find Jobs on Craigslist?

So you might wonder with all my grumbling about sites looking for free content and my cautions about possible scams whether any writers find jobs on Craigslist.

The truth is that yes, they do.

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Writers: Beware of New Sites Seeking Free Content

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Are you jumping through hoops?

I applied to a writing job the other day. They said they needed an editor and writer to help sort through hundreds of submissions they receive each day. I followed their instructions and asked for more information. Continue reading

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Klout Perks Redux – Joint Juice

image of Klout Perks Joint Juice emailApparently Klout is trying something new with Klout Perks. In the past, invites came through Twitter, but tonight I received an email invitation to claim a perk for a one month supply of Joint Juice and a water bottle. Continue reading

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